“Even if you hate the fact that you have white privilege and do not agree with white supremacist ideology, if you are white or a white-passing person, you are still a beneficiary of a system that oppresses non-white people… So you have a duty and a responsibility to use the privilege that this system has given you from birth to dismantle it - both within yourself, in your communities and in your institutions.”

- Layla F. Saad, I Need To Talk To Spiritual White Women About White Supremacy (Part II) Open Letter, October, 2017

Welcoming

If you are considering working with me, you may want to know about my social and personal identities. I share this as part of my personal and professional work of re-envisioning and recreating individual, family and community cultures of kindness, collaboration, peace, and equality from the inside out and from the outside in. 

I am a woman. My “race” is “white.” My lineage is western european and mexican.  I am cis-gendered and straight (though I lean into circles and spirals more than straight lines). I was born and raised in the rural northeast of the US.

What also feels relevant and important to me are my ways of seeing and being….

I am a granddaughter, daughter, sister, mother.
I offer thanks and prayers to my ancestors.
I am a creatrix- a writer, painter, dancer, plant healer, wellness weaver.
Love is my greatest strength.
I have the ability to sit alongside the pain
and sing the strengths of my human siblings.
I have survived trauma and postpartum mental health crisis

and what I learned has strengthened and

re-aligned me with myself.
I am wildly
whole and wounded
tender and fierce
magical and commonplace.

For collaborators from different groups and identities

Dear one, I can assure you I will always do my best. AND, despite my anti-oppressive practice, despite my own lived experiences of oppression and trauma, I may make some mistakes with you. You may have the burden of explaining some things to me. We all carry biases and blind spots and my anti-oppressive healing work is ongoing. 

If I cause harm…

I am going to take full responsibility for it. 
I am going to make every reasonable effort toward repair.
I am going to learn from my mistakes in ways that will reduce future harm.

You deserve access to care that serves you in your wholeness.

You deserve access to care that does not constantly require you to explain and educate, or expose you to the impact of bias.

This is especially true during the postpartum when social influences can profoundly influence wellness. 


What do you need to feel safe and comfortable with someone you’re paying to support your path to wellness? 

What are your thoughts when you consider working with someone with different social identities?

How does your body respond when you consider working with someone with white, cis-gendered, and straight social identities?

More Options

Postpartum Support International has an online directory for providers of color

Postpartum Support International has a volunteer support coordinator for Queer familes and a directory of providers who identify as knowledgeable and competent in treating queer folx.